Who is that guy? Well... my name is Jules Vaes 31 years old, crazy, limitless, a men with no patience at all, preferably all or nothing boy, and a little bit of sarcasm. And oh, tell me not to do it, if you want me to do it. Writing about myself in the third person has always freaked me out, plus there’s the fact that I’m just not good at it, so I’ll spare you my own way of vanity. Talking about that, I have an extremely high self-reflection and i'm a king in criticizing myself. Now lets talk about my character. No, I am not vain of myself, No I am not a 'selfie fitness dude', and No! I do not take pictures of myself every day. Yes, i am confident, But i don't like the 'watch me' attitude.
Writing about myself in the third person has always freaked me out .”
There is something else you need to know about me. I have ADD. Unlike as many other people i enjoying this concentration disorder. Enjoying? YES! You read that well. I even use the benefits of it. Yes it's true; I am easily distracted, and yes! I interrupt you many times (sorry about that), and yes! I also find that annoying, because there is nothing worse than knowing what you do it every day again, but you try not to do it. You can stamp me, call me a problem child.. whatever. But Hey! There are also positive sides on a boy with ADD. Everyone focuses always on the negative side of it. But what if i told you that ADD brings also beautiful properties up in a human. I am extremely creative, and also enormously driven (if I am interested). And i can tell you that my whole ambition is the basis of this ADD. That I can often completely lose myself in things and i will no longer rest 'until the moment is there'. I can say that I have a different view of the world.. I am equipped with some extra power that we (ADD'ers) call hyperfocus. And in fact I am one of those few men with an empathetic ability (Yes, ladies, they really exist). I can go far, where other people stops I break through a few walls. Call it stubborn, or again see the benefit of this. "Life is what we make of it." I can continue for hours on how I function with ADD but... we don't. Let me continue and let me tell other fancy things about myself.
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Unfortunately, you have now discovered one of the disadvantages of ADD. Because of my enthusiasm I can be a bit long-winded. I'm a man who daily seeks challenges and results in sports and work. I practice tennis, squach, running and I do fitness 3 times a week. I love to travel and I am obsessed with beautiful landscapes, especially in the azure blue sea. Why? I don't even know it myself. Pretty crazy actually! In the past when I went on holiday with my parents, I hated it when my mother said, "Jules, look this nature, and see how beautiful it is," the only thing I thought at that moment was; give me a swimming pool and a few ice creams. I was not waiting for what 'sniffing culture' as my parents call it. Now that I am older, I can really enjoy what nature has to offer us.
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Jules why do you write about yourself ...? Okay fair question! If I have learned anything in life, you must continue to challenge and develop yourself every facking day. Without that, I get grumpy, go kick everything and I don't become a nicer person. For example, Now i am writing in English to develop my English language skills. A hell of a job for someone who also has dyslexia. Anyway ... I work hard, I am diciplined, ambitious, perfectionist and have an extremly perseverance. As I wrote you earlier ... I break through walls. "its all in the package with jules" If you want to know exactly why, when and what I am doing, (What i sometimes ask myself) then you should follow my blog. I regularly come back with what I am currently doing and why I do things at that moment. If you want to know more about me, If you have any questions... feel free to send me a message!